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September 20, 2008

Five Simple Rules for Learning How to Debate

With the debates beginning later this week, I thought I might share an important lesson I learned from reading George Lakoff and from listening to countless hours of Rush Limbaugh, Sean Hannity, Michael Medved and other "pundits": FRAMING the political discussion is essential because it allows you to neutralize your opponent and control the debate to your advantage.

Therefore, to help you understand how the political game is played on a micro-level, I offer the following rules of engagement. Let's call them: "Dave's Rules".


Dave's Rule #1: Always be the one to ASK the question. The person asking the question has control of the conversation and, therefore, the debate.

This rule is deceptively powerful because it takes advantage of human psychology and behavior. If I ask you a question, you're forced - if people are watching - to answer. If I avoid answering, I look like I've got something to hide. This is why you'll rarely, if ever, see two candidates addressing each other directly in a televised debate. There's always a neutral moderator in place to ensure that one party can't control the situation.

But what about at a dinner party? What about at work by the coffee pot on Monday mornings? With no moderator, people are free to use whatever tactics they like to convince others of their positions. Here's an example: let's say a rabid Republican vomits the following on you: "Barrack Hussein Obama is a Muslim with radical friends and no real foreign policy experience. Why would any American give their support to a Muslim who is so unprepared to lead, especially after 9/11?"

I like to call this kind of tactic an "attack question" because it attacks the person in the guise of asking a real question.

Now, the natural inclination for most liberals/progressives in this situation would be to clearly and articulately defend why you support Obama. And if you do this: the rabid Republican has just won the debate, right there, without even needing to hear what you have to say. Because at that point, it doesn't MATTER what you have to say. It matters that you've taken the bait and gone on the defensive by answering the absurd question that was posed to you. Instead, take another approach...


Dave's Rule #2: Never answer an "attack question". Instead, side-step the remark and counter with your own question.

Don't waste your time trying to defend the absurd or the ridiculous. I'll save you the time: you can't. Instead, use the oldest tactic in the book - respond to an attack question with a question of your own. Reply to the rabid Republican's "question" with:

"How can you be so ignorant - in this age of immediately accessible data - to actually believe that a Christian man with a Harvard Law Degree, who has been elected to local, state and national positions and has run a successful national Presidential campaign for 18 months is, somehow, unfit to lead America on domestic and foreign issues?!?"

Slam dunk response. You've labeled your opponent as ignorant, provided some correction of facts, cited the availability of data to prove your point and then questioned his ability to make a sound judgment. Now he'll be forced to answer your question and defend his ignorance.

This rule ensures that you can quickly and effectively put your opponent on the defensive instead of becoming defensive yourself. Always strive to take the dominant position in a debate.


Dave's Rule #3: ALWAYS ask for clarification and source materials from your opponent. Controlling authenticity means you control the conversation.

This rule, truly, is the easiest because it only requires that you be curious about how your opponents came to their conclusions. Let's say, you're at a dinner party and a gentleman says, "I won't vote for Obama because he's going to raise taxes." Simply ask him in which publication he read this information. By doing so, you'll not only put an attacker on the defensive, but you'll also - at the very least - ensure that the conversation won't be based on gut emotions or rumors but rather on factual information. And you'll put others in the room on notice.

If the person you've questioned is educated, maybe they'll provide you with some solid information that proves their position. If so: fantastic. Now you've just learned something yourself. You can thank them for this.

More likely than not, however, the other person won't have a credible source. They'll have heard someone they trust say something powerful and repeat the claim. Or they'll have listened to Rush Limbaugh or Sean Hannity spew un-factchecked hatred on the air about the issue and adopt the soundbite as their own.

Challenge them. Get facts, not opinion.


Dave's Rule #4: Be Brief. Time is our most precious commodity.

It's sad but true: the patience of the average American these days is quite small. We live in a world of soundbites and YouTube clips. How many people actually read the newspaper anymore? Or novels for that matter? Most of America doesn't have or make the time. They're too busy holding down three jobs to make ends meet. So say what you need to say quickly. If you need ten written pages to defend your position, like these folks, you're going to lose your audience. No one wants to read that much, even if you ARE right.


Dave's Rule #5: Assume a strong posture: immediately label your opponent when then play their cards.

If, during a dialogue or debate, your opponents give you a compliment, thank them for their kindness. Graciously accepting a compliment raises the bar for all involved, engenders trust and allows for a moment of humanity.

If, however, your opponents lie about you, manipulate facts, or spread rumors, then immediately label them for what they are. Say it out loud, give it a name and call them to the carpet. And for goodness sakes: don't be shy about it because your Republican opponents certainly won't be.

Saying to your opponent "You're lying to the American people about my record and abusing the public's trust..." is a far stronger response than "I never said that...". Saying, "You're running the sleaziest and least honorable campaign in modern Presidential history" is an even stronger way to label your opponent...even if the statement is, perhaps, itself an exaggeration.


Starting this Friday night, I encourage you to try a little experiment. Record each debate. Then, when you have a bit more time, play it back. Get a beer. Kick back. Make a night of it. Invite friends over. Then watch carefully: do the candidates answer the questions? Pause the action and discuss. Are the candidates assuming a dominant or submissive position again their opponent? Are they labelling one another quickly and effectively? And are they the ones setting the tone by asking the questions...?

Let the games begin.


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Comments:
David!

I Love Rule #2. My favorite! Answering questions with a question.

But surely any liberal worth their weight in fair-trade gold would not promote a dialogue with an introductory "How can you be so ignorant..."?

Has San Francisco made me too soft? Have I lost the forest for the trees?

-AlyB.
:-)
 
I'm considering not watching the debates and I will tell you why. The debate itself might focus on some very important issues. However when the presstitutes encapsulate the debates for the next weeks after this debate, they will tilt the interpretation of the debate towards McCAINs favor. Why do I say this? Look at what happened to keith Olbermann. NBC demoted him from Anchor status on MSNBC. If NBC can dothis, they will do just about anything to favor McCAIN. Already I read at Daily Kos that CBS, Gallup, USA Today and Rasmussen ( A Republican pollster) have rigged their polls to include too many Republicans to make the polls close back in early September.

I refuse to reward the so called objective press with my viewership.

Currently I watch CSPAN, a podcast of Keith Olbermann's Countdown, Young Turks live video broadcast and also the live broadcasts of Air America Radio.

I trust CSPAN mostly. If I see something exclusively Republican on CSPAN 1, I usually turn away from CSPAN 1 and watch CSPAN 2 or 3 for something more interesting and get back to Washington Journal or whatever appeared on CSPAN 1.

As for the other programs, I tend to trust them also as they appear liberal oriented shows and these shows will not give the antigravity Republican spokesman equal weight to the liberal advocating gravity on earth.

In other words the presstitutes in the mainstream media give the financial and social criminal Republican and the police officer Democrats equal credibility on news shows and ultimately in these so called debates which will actually appear dual press conferences.

I have watched these debates for decades. As Stalin said, it doesn't matter who votes but who counts the votes and the mainstreeam disassociated press will take the debate and shape it either evenly to make it a horse race or give McCAIN the lead for drama.

I'm not going to gie the networks my viewership. I'll let the Young Turks, Keith Olbermann on podcast without commercials, Air America on video my viewership and let me decide if I agree with these trusted people.

No longer will I let the people who don't give a rats patoot about the poor and the middle class and treat the sociopaths in the Republiklan party equivalently to the people in the Democratic Party who actually care about the poor and the middle class.

Of course the people in the Republiklan party will scream that Obama will raise people's taxes. I say in retort, if people asked their cheap labor Republiklan party voting boss for an adequate salary or found a better job then they wouldn't concern themselves about taxes.

While Rome burns the disassociated press looks, analyzes, and sits by while people suffer under a Hooverite Ayn Randian Republiklan party that serves as either a bridge to nowhere or to the 11th century.

I don't want McCAIN's new feudalism.

So I might just tune out of the debates. You might want to do so too.
 
I want to see Nader in the debates. He's on the ballot in 45 states.
 
One important thing I learned from The West Wing is, if you don't agree with the premise of a question, reject it. All three of "Dave's rules" have an element of this.

With regard to asking for clarification, do it carefully. When asked if you agree with the Bush Doctrine, you'll look like a complete idiot if you just blankly say, "In what sense, Charlie?" Respond with, "That's a pretty open-ended question. What specific part are you asking about?" And, for Pete's sake, don't say "Think think. What IS a doctrine?" while hitting the side of your head.

(Good to see you blogging again, btw.)
 
Point of clarification... I meant "the first three" not "all three". Carry on. --Z
 
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